Inspired Home Office: Learning the fine art of gestation

Daffodils in December?

Learning the fine art of gestation

Everybody knows that a daffodil won't bloom outdoors in December. The cold and snow herald a time for the bulb to retreat into the dark earth and restore its vigor and strength.

Although sometimes we lose sight of this truth, you are also part of nature.

Are you fighting nature?

Many business models encourage perpetual productivity. But because our creativity is part of the natural cycle, there must be a time for replenishment, too.

Wintertime is as vital to the life of a plant as the glorious blooms of springtime and the fruits of summer and fall. So it is also with you. And your business.

Creativity takes time

Now, I'm not advocating that you close up shop tomorrow to return sometime next spring.

But have you ever walked away from a project that's been challenging you - maybe to walk the dog, or take a shower, or pick up some eggs from the store and - BAM! The answer you were seeking appears, seemingly from nowhere?

That's because you gave yourself some winter-time, some space for your brain to rest... and, meanwhile, the ideas gestate inside then bloom.

How to make it hard on yourself

If you stay at your desk, glued to the monitor, trying to get... it... right... Nothing comes out easily.

By forcing yourself to produce when it's not yet time, you do damage to yourself. You stilt true progess and growth.

Perpetual productivity is painful

So why do you do this? Well, sometimes you need to "get the job done." But oftentimes, the underlying factor is that the spring blossom and the summer fruit feel good.

You get a high from results. Another checkmark - but at what cost long-term?

The Inspired Home Office 80/20 Rule

80% of creating and productivity is internal and 20% is external, visible work.

This doesn't mean you need to sit at your desk, twiddling your thumbs for weeks on end. It just means that when you feel the urge to stop (writing, working on a project, whatever), you can trust that it really is time to stop.

And once you've stopped, you can choose to do something will nourish your heart and your mind. This will allow the next step will unfold naturally and organically.

Just like daffodils do.

Things to Try:

1. Notice when you force

Do you set up your schedule in a way that forces you to produce, without leaving time for contempation or rest?
Do you commit to deadlines that seem reasonable, but really aren't?
Do you notice feeling resentful for intrusions or extra demands on your time?

What choices do you make that contribute to these dymanics? When you know, you can eliminate some of the souces of forcing in your work.

2. Listen to your inner knowing

While you're working, listen for a tiny voice inside you that whispers, "I need a break now." or "Stop." This is your inner knowing.

It won't roar, so be alert.

3. Do what the voice says

This isn't a reference to that "I do what the voices in my head tell me to do" bumper sticker. :)

When you hear that tiny voice, take heed. Really.

No matter what you do, a daffodil will take as long as it does to go from bulb to blossom.

You may come to find that the breaks you give yourself take less time than needlessly banging your head against the wall in frustration.

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